“Have a Nice Week.”

“Have a nice week.” That’s my mother’s regular sign-off to our regular telephone conversations. For many years it made perfect sense. I tended to call her on Sunday afternoons and we’d shoot the breeze until neither of us could think of anything else to say. Most of...

How Fast Is Too Fast?

I’m in a busy phase. Really busy. It’s all good, but it’s a lot. I find myself having to make choices among activities that normally I would say were all important to me, some because they contribute to making a living and some because they...

Sandwich Living

I feel like a slice of deli meat these days, my emotions trapped between the generations on either side of me in the midst of their transitions. Last week I visited with my mother, who lives in another state. Some of you enjoyed her quips as I recorded them on the...

Can You Take a Dare?

I have a friend who shares a lot of books with me. I read plenty, but I would be the first to admit that I don’t keep up with all the newest releases or scour Publishers Weekly to find out what the critics think. I’m more of a late adopter. So it works out...

Confessions of a Mac Lover

First, in the interest of full disclosure, let me confess I am a Mac aficionado. In the mid- to late 80s, I was on a break from working in an office. I worked in a retail setting, began to think seriously about writing, and had a couple of kids. In 1992, I reentered...

Occipital What?

“You’ve had a headache for a month?” I’ve heard that a lot lately. I’m stubborn. I know it. Headaches are a long-time companion, actually. Usually a headache signals one of these things: • not enough fluids • not enough protein • not...